Even if it's not generalising it's definitely sexism so I don't think the moderation is unfair.
Plus to me at least Pemalite seems like one of, if not the, least biased mods on the team so...
It's sexism, alright. But I think this highlights a consistent problem that VGC moderation has had for a long time and why females don't want to post much, if they even sign up at all.
You just need to give the thread dark_lord posted in a read. You'll find that the OP (Metroid33slayer) has written several posts that are sexist and misogynist beyond doubt, but the one post that got picked out for moderation targets men.