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The messaging is the hardest part by far because well they get so many messages and they do not seem that interested at all. When you do meet each other it is a disappointment. So many of the multiple people I have met from online were older and in worse shape than they appeared online. I would not want to message or see them again and the awkward silence was a clear indicator that I was disappointed. You do not offend the person by telling them what you really think. It is polite not to tell people what they want to hear.

Last edited by Dark_Lord_2008 - on 19 March 2019