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Cobretti2 on 11 January 2019
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Dark_Lord_2008 said:

I have been and tried therapy, seen psychologists and psychiatrists, been on medications for 20 years on/off and it did not change anything. It does not change the fact that I do not fit into social situations, feel like an outsider and avoiding social situations is the only way to make the fear go away.
Non-Autistic do not understand how hard life is with Autism, your advice only applies for people that do not have Autism.
Autism can not be cured and there is not much that can be done for us.

I sense/know that women do not want anything to do with me, without saying a word. I do not want to be rejected and boost random female's ego. Why waste time being rejected when you have no chance at all? I have the right to remain silent. 

I am pretty sure a couple people here have said they have some sort of autism and are trying or have managed. The problem is no one doubts that you have some form of autism, but you seem not to have even changed from 8 years ago when you wrote a similar topic on that other website. It takes baby steps to change.

Also what kind of women are you aiming for? You can't aim for a 10 and expect not to get rejected. You need to set a realistic benchmark. At the end of the day looks fade, it is the personality that will matter. I know girls that were a 10+ in primary/high school, the girl everyone wanted. 20 years later they look worst than the average looking girls in that time period. Look beyond the skin and find somsene you click with rather then superficial things you think a woman should be.