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@OP two questions before I go on. Are you ugly and have you had sex? Serious question.

Now funny you talk about men choosing to be single. I'm going into year 7 with my gf and I always tell her when she asks what would I do if she broke up with me and I say I'd stay single and enjoy life without the stress of a gf. I ask if you'd had sex because before I ever did I was a little awkward too with women. Didn't help I went to an all boys school and spent all my time on all boys sports teams. Very little social interaction. Plus my parents never acted romantic.

Anyway she asked what about sex and I told her the feeling of an orgasm is the same whether it's from a women or my hand.

Another thing I noticed. Whenever I was single and going to clubs trying to get a girl I'd fail or find it harder. But anytime I went out during relationships with previous girlfriends or my current one and I'm with the lads I find women are way more interested and I'm always laughing telling them, where were you when I was single. So what I take from that is girls are more interested in men who aren't chilled and are trying too hard to get them.