| DarthMetalliCube said:
Bruh, I know it sucks, and I can't pretend to understand what you're going through, but - I do feel I exhibit some of your traits (pretty sure I have many traits of social anxiety and some of autism), and I really feel from my perspective that you just gotta play the hand you're dealt. That's all you can do. You can't control the mental/physical state you were given, but you can control what you do with it. If you do that to the best of your ability, and maintain a positive outlook and try to be a kind person to others and treat yourself well, good things will happen. Maybe not as well as you'd like but it will. I watched a Boogie video once that helped give me hope. In it he said something like "maybe you were thrown into a game in extra hard mode, well.. beat the game anyway". I've had zero luck with women and I haven't had much of a robust job history myself, but I try to remain positive and don't give up. I just keep fighting. I try to look at it as, it hardens my resolve and strengthens my character. At the very least, I try to maintain a calm peace about myself. That's all you can do. |
| SpokenTruth said:
Stop this. ALL of this. You make massive presumptions about women and then blame your problems with them based on those presumptions. How the hell can you say no women would ever talk to you when you have sworn off ever talking to them? You haven't been proven right about women because you exist in your own self-fulfilling prophecy. "I do not need to ask women out just to be rejected endlessly and no reason given."? Can I have some of that mind reading power? Get over yourself for 5 minutes, look into some of the excellent resources that I and others have given you and get some help. You keep saying you've accepted your situation but you haven't accepted a damn thing. You are still in anger, bargaining and depression phases of grief. Acceptance requires that you are content with your situation and you damn sure aren't. Worse is that your situation is largely a fictionalized reality you've made up. YOU have chosen to live in a world where there is an absolute and universal rejection of you by women. You have manifested your own fiction borne from your insecurities and realized through a projection u[on women of your own rejection of yourself. Get help. |
ok hopefully this multi tag works lol.
@Darth
You are not wrong. I was born in a time and in a country that didn't even have conditions for the symptoms he has described or that I have ready about autism. you miss behave or acted funny you got your ass wooped by a cane lol. You were quiet or antisocial your parents called you a wild beast that need to grow up. You didn't want to do something? then you didn't get to eat. If i was born in Australia I fear that doctors here would have been to quick to label you autistic and suddenly you get thrown into this other bucket.
Darth a lot of dating and entering into a serious relationship is pure luck, chance and being there at the right time. Only way to get there is to keep trying, so good on you for staying positive. I wish you all the luck.
If you want a root, one night stands is a different beast. Pretty much all emotions taken out and all lust. Fun when you young but it does become empty from what the so called players who have matured have told me lol. Some just never grow up and continue that life style, which is their choice.
@SpokenTruth
Exactly but he doesn't seem to want to get the help. He described himself as uglies mfker etc. but in all honesty at 70kgs of weight, he can easily improve his look simply by just dressing a little better and smiling here and there. Sometimes I wonder if he is trolling us or not because in his latest reply he says he dropped out of school, but then he said he has a degree on commerce. You can' get to uni without graduating year 12. So i don't know how much is real and how much is fiction built around his bubble to shield him from the world/reality.
Every time people provide some useful info, he just rejects it completely. I am half tempted to visit these places in WA that help autisict people to see what help they offer.
@BOTH
I don't know if you read any of my replies or not but everytime he said something negative about his live, I gave him examples of my own life were I was worst off and how others are worst off. It is how they dealt with those situations and bounced back that made the difference.
At the end of the day no matter how shit your life is, someone's will always be shittier. At the same time no matter how good your life is, someone's will always be better. You just gotta make the best of what you got.
