Aziz Ansari Is Guilty. Of Not Being a Mind Reader - NYT

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VGPolyglot said:

zedim said:

i dont know your age but this is clearly an answer by someone who is not used to relationships, but its really socially awkward to ask if you can make a move, you just go with the flow and do it, if someone doesnt want they make it clearly obvious, this aint rocket science its mating, its pretty obvious. she even admits she gives him a blowj** for christ sake. 

Yeah, it could be awkward, especially in the current social norms where asking explicitly for permission is for some reason seen as undesirable, but it would definitely help reduce the number of instances like this where people get into situations that they're not comfortable with.

Honestly the fastest way to turn off a woman is to act like some kind of Mormon and ask for permission for sex / kissing / holding hand / etc. May as well follow it up with "I'm unemployed and live with my parents" just to really make sure you scare her off. 

In all seriousness though, it is getting to the point where it is like why even bother with women anymore? One day soon we will have sex dolls / robots that are close enough to the real thing, and doctors are already toying with the idea of an artificial womb ... will be no need to interact with women at all really when that technology is perfected. There will be strong vocal resistance to both of these things from women for obvious reasons though...

I envy gay men in many ways. They don't have to deal with this nonsense.