VGPolyglot said:
Why should she have to say no first, shouldn't he ask first? |
i dont know your age but this is clearly an answer by someone who is not used to relationships, but its really socially awkward to ask if you can make a move, you just go with the flow and do it, if someone doesnt want they make it clearly obvious, this aint rocket science its mating, its pretty obvious. she even admits she gives him a blowj** for christ sake.
Regret and sexual assault are not the same. i sometimes while drunk hooked up with girls that im not proud of, and am still made fun of today by my friends(lol)
that only means that i was an idiot.
The problem with the metoo movement is that encourages women to lie. Since these days all it takes is a women feeling bad about a sexual encounter to be considered "rape".
its an easy way for fame and attention for girls with very low self esteem. since they literally have nothing to lose. As a person its very hard to see a woman cry and very sad claiming she was sexually assaulted and not doing anything. i cant imagine if my sister or daughter came to me one day and said that.
The problem with social media is that there is no consequences if you are lying. Thats why i think you should have to go to court(the police) and not make it public we are creating a very dangerous environment.
The biggest problem in this story to me is that this lady genuinely believes she was "raped" or "sexually assaulted" so in the sotry she wrote it genuinely appears to be written without any omission. Any sane person who reads this can see that this wasnt a crime and it was just 2 peoplo who wouldnt work out.
If she wrote this but less detailed and putting more emphasis on feeling very bad while doing it, or even saying she told him to stop but he ignored, no one would have even considered aziz side.
Ok sorry for the rant but i just think we are swimming in dangerous waters
