Well, the forum rules are pretty damn hard to follow. You think you're within the rules and bam, you're fucked without notice. It's hard to keep members when the rules are so strict. Ideally, the perfect forum would be free and members would be allowed to have at it openly, within reason (no death threats, posting personal info, porn etc.) but it seems most people can't handle other people calling them names anymore lol.
i agree that the rules are very strict.