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FattyDingDong said:
drdante said:

How is it now? Any more update? 

Did you make it with your cousin?

I have tried numerous times contacting Jim and trying to talk to him but have failed miserably. He has deleted me(and Tom) from Facebook, Instagram, Snapchat.  This has really pissed me off because I was man enough to acknowledge my wrong doings and apologize but he refuses to even look me in the eye and hear me out. He is disrespecting me and Tom at this point we are both older than him by 3 or 4 years.  He has even told his parents not to accept my phone calls or reply to my text messages. Tom tried to contact Jim's only friend Chris and he has apperantly told him that he wishes to never see us again(according to Chris). So at this time I wont bother sweating over this thing anymore because I have done the right thing and apologized(numerous times) and if he chooses to be disrespectful and immature about it it's his problem.

You see, that's the problem. Just because you're older than him doesn't mean you need the respect that comes with it, especially how awful you behaved towards him. And look who's talking of immature... Mr. Apologize-to-me-because-I'm-bigger-than-you. He deleted you from everywhere? It happens. It simply means he doesn't want you to bombard him with comments. It's not the end of the world. It's not like it's a permanent deletion. And good job blaming the victim just because him not apologizing to you doesn't make you feel better. You're better off not saying anything yet.

Like I said before: let the time heal the wounds. If his parents know everything in detail, you don't need to tell them anything anymore. Just give it time and maybe he'll approach you. Maybe. And if you feel guilty about everything, you should've thought about it before planning that shitty prank "for the lulz". Hopefully, you've learned for what you did.