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attaboy said:
I don't know why people got the impression that I have unrealistic expectations or that I don't know how to find decent women. I'm awesome! I didn't want her to be a model or anything. That doesn't even turn me on, anyway. I just want average, at least. It's just hard to break up with someone when they really haven't done anything wrong. She wants to meet my family, friends, etc. and I've been putting it off for about a week, now. I think I'm just going to do one of two things:

-not talk to her anymore and totally disappear from the earth
OR
-(thanks, xJBOwnagex) just say I was attracted to you but now, I'm not anymore. And, I think I will do it tomorrow.

Just don't BS. If you're concerned about coming off as shallow, don't be.

In the end, if you're going to have a physical relationship with someone and something like weight is going to be an issue as far as attraction goes, then it's not going to work out. Stay friends if you can, assuming you get along that well, but just let her know that the physical attraction just isn't there and that this isn't working for you, which is what sounds like is the truth.