Runa216 said:
ah, got it. Still feel this entire thread is a farce. being unfaithful to your partner is not a good thing to be sure, as honesty is a very important part of any relationship, but the worst punishment you should get for being unfaithful is losing your partner(s). if you are dishonest or lie to someone, it's only fair they don't trust you, and if that means they don't want to have a relationship with you, then that's their decision. To be honest, sex really SHOULDN'T be that big of a deal. it shouldn't be a deal breaker, or some end of the world thing if something doesn't 'fit'. I'm with D12Lewis, I always saw sex as just another thing two friends do. yeah, it strengthens bonds, as it requires an air of humility and fragility, you have to trust someone to be naked in front of them, but I don't think it's some holy act. To me, I'm just as willing to have sex with a friend as I am play videogames with them. I just want a partner that shares my 'sex is casual' attitude. Oh, and happydolphin once again misses my point. dude seems to follow me around to every thread I post in to try and make me look bad by exposing logic holes that aren't there. |
And yet you always fail at showing how. Maybe I missed your point (and I get it from this post), but it doesn't change that the way you argued it was flawed. It's probably what happened every time we debated in the past.
In other words you have interesting perspectives, but don't rationalize/argue them well.
