By using this site, you agree to our Privacy Policy and our Terms of Use. Close
Killiana1a said:
oldschoolfool said:
Killiana1a said:
A one bedroom is a step up from a studio. Work your angle meaning work what you have going for you. As for your complaining about a lack of money, you are implying that you are pursuing: A. Women who are out of your league in terms of physical looks and/or B. Women who you know who are wanting to be the baby momma of a baller.

Recognize and recalibrate. There is a girl out there for you. Better yet, befriend a woman and get her advice on what league you are in, your approach, etc. Any woman will suffice and don't be picky, befriend your ugly cashier and take her out for some drinks. Get comfortable with her to the point you two can share silence and then you will be at the point that you can ask her anything.


^^ you make some good points. thanks for the advice. 

Most importantly, don't be too hard on yourself. You may not have the greatest job now, but your future is your own. If you look at people they don't want anything that is easily obtained. Make yourself scarce. Cancel dates. Stay home and select the time you want to spend out. People desire things that are hard to obtain. The moment a person smells desperation is the moment they start formulating an escape plan.


^^ I do the exact opposite of that,your post is making see what I'm doing wrong. Thanks for the advice,I feel better now.