So you think the worst thing a woman can say is no......think again.

[madskillz]

Comrade Tovya said:

madskillz said:

Comrade Tovya said:
I don't know about the compliment thing now, because he already kind of showed his cards.

I'd change my name, quit my job, and leave the country.. ;)

No seriously though, the direct approach rarely works unless she's been giving you the signs... playing with her hair when you look at her, you catch her taking multiple glances at you (unless there is a big booger hanging out your nose, and that could be why she's staring, so check that first).

I think the smile she gives you is the big clue (if she gives you one of course).

Not really - you can rebound from that faux pas by just being yourself. She just had her defenses up - but give her some time and if you just happen to run into her in certain places.

And lol on the booger. Comeon, man ...

For me, if a woman lights up around me - grins at most things I says - tells me she wants to hug me all the time or be around me all the time, I know she's feelin' me.

Another thing that attracts women? C-O-M-M-I-T-M-E-N-T. Yeah, ladies see a dude with a wedding band, they are like 'Dude is willing to settle down.' They will play extra hard because they  *think* you won't try anything. If you are caught slippin', it is easy to fall. Fortunately, I have never gotten to that point - but doggone.

Any update, hitman? Whassup, playboy?

 

Yeah, we were saying the same thing really... I was just just saying, the direct approach didn't work, and some other people were telling him to go do it again.  If the poor guy tried that again, he'd go from fool to a guy who's seemingly desperate.

He needs to back pff.  If she starts taking notice of him, stares, etc, then he might still have a chance.  Otherwise, she just isn't interested.  He doesn't need to show her the "I like you" signs, as she well knows that he wants to go out with her.  It's no secret.

As for the wedding band thing, yeah that is true.  My wife told me that women also like to have things that belong to someone else... you know, some people just gotta have what's already taken. 

She also said that women are always checking out another guy's girl.  If an ugly dude is with a gorgeous girl, they want him because the guy must be rich or got something special going on below the waste.  If the dude is the gorgeous one with the ugly chick, they say, "damn, I'm hotter than her, I can have him.  She don't deserve a guy that good looking".

So my wife says.  But sounds about right to me.

 

True dis, bro ... but I am living proof that women who aren't remotely interested can turn to you - but it takes time. It's the law of attraction - the more you are around a person, the more you are attracted to them. For her, all it may take is like those crazy Liberty Mutual commercials. She could be at her desk and he's walking by and helps someone - not even trying to flex his game - and she's like 'That's really nice' and gives him another chance - even initiates. It happens - like a light just goes off.

Yeah, the wedding band thing is sooooo true. If you look anything like your sig, I can bet you have women checking you out and seeing the band on your finger and feenin'. I don't wear my band as much - especially when I work with electronics - but in Texas, I don't flirt as hard as I did in New Mexico. Dang, mix brown skin and charisma and I could have an army of hawties - soldiers - down to help a brotha out.

I have seen your other posts - seems like we share a lot in common as far as game. You in Texas, right? I'm in H-town.