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Comrade Tovya said:
I don't know about the compliment thing now, because he already kind of showed his cards.

I'd change my name, quit my job, and leave the country.. ;)

No seriously though, the direct approach rarely works unless she's been giving you the signs... playing with her hair when you look at her, you catch her taking multiple glances at you (unless there is a big booger hanging out your nose, and that could be why she's staring, so check that first).

I think the smile she gives you is the big clue (if she gives you one of course).

Not really - you can rebound from that faux pas by just being yourself. She just had her defenses up - but give her some time and if you just happen to run into her in certain places.

And lol on the booger. Comeon, man ...

For me, if a woman lights up around me - grins at most things I says - tells me she wants to hug me all the time or be around me all the time, I know she's feelin' me.

Another thing that attracts women? C-O-M-M-I-T-M-E-N-T. Yeah, ladies see a dude with a wedding band, they are like 'Dude is willing to settle down.' They will play extra hard because they  *think* you won't try anything. If you are caught slippin', it is easy to fall. Fortunately, I have never gotten to that point - but doggone.

Any update, hitman? Whassup, playboy?