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Men choose to remain single and give up on women?

They do not want to becom... 9 7.69%
 
They do not want to change! 12 10.26%
 
They do not need a woman'... 3 2.56%
 
They do not want to conform to society! 5 4.27%
 
They have busy life and d... 9 7.69%
 
They are a man-child and never grew up! 17 14.53%
 
They are regarded as a lo... 15 12.82%
 
Modern feminism double st... 19 16.24%
 
Other! 27 23.08%
 
They choose sex workers instead! 1 0.85%
 
Total:117
Dark_Lord_2008 on 11 December 2018

https://www.quora.com/What-are-the-reasons-a-man-should-stay-single-for-life

You will not have the burden of being a provider for the rest of your life;

You will not have to worry about the future of of children in a ever changing and challenging world;

You will feel less disposable and more free;

You will have far more free time;

You wont attach yourself to one person and suffer about each other idiosyncrasies;

You won’t have to give a spetacular and overspecified report of how was your day whenever you arrive tired of work at home;

You will be less prone to stupid and unfunded accusations of machism and will care less about “the power of the patriarchy”;

You will not have to pay attention to cheap talks about fashion and food and things of the like while you are concerned with bills and job problems;

You will not feel uncertainty about the future of your family;

You will not have to worry about possessions, you can live with less confort;

You can kick the bucket at any time and send your boss to hell;

You will have more time and money for beer and stupid things like sports and games;

You can just leave your place and experiment another city or job at any time;

You can be an adventurer and meet new people at new places more often;

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Flilix on 11 December 2018
Dark_Lord_2008 said:
Theory of mind refers to the notion that many autistic individuals do not understand that other people have their own plans, thoughts, and points of view. Furthermore, it appears that they have difficulty understanding other people's beliefs, attitudes, and emotions.
Many of the tasks used to test this theory have been given to non-autistic children as well as children with mental retardation, and the theory of mind phenomenon appears to be unique to those with autism. In addition, theory of mind appears to be independent of intelligence even though people with Asperger's syndrome exhibit this problem to a lesser degree.
Interestingly, people with autism have difficulty comprehending when others don't know something. It is quite common, especially for those with savant abilities, to become upset when asking a question of a person to which the person does not know the answer.
By not understanding that other people think differently than themselves, many autistic individuals may have problems relating socially and communicating to other people. That is, they may not be able to anticipate what others will say or do in various situations. In addition, they may have difficulty understanding that their peers or classmates even have thoughts and emotions, and may thus appear to be self-centered, eccentric, or uncaring.
Although this is an egocentric view of the world, there is nothing in the theory of mind to imply that autistic individuals feel superior to others.
The vital question which must be asked is: How does one teach individuals with autism to understand and acknowledge the thoughts and feelings of others? One of the methods used to teach autistic children and adults this concept is an intervention developed by Carol Gray called 'social stories.' These short stories describe different scenarios which allow autistic individuals to understand themselves and others better. These stories may motivate them to start asking questions about other people and at least recognize that different individuals think in unique ways.

Dude, you just copied this entire text from some website about autism. What's the point of posting that here?



TruckOSaurus on 11 December 2018
Dark_Lord_2008 said:

https://www.quora.com/What-are-the-reasons-a-man-should-stay-single-for-life

You will not have the burden of being a provider for the rest of your life;

You will not have to worry about the future of of children in a ever changing and challenging world;

You will feel less disposable and more free;

You will have far more free time;

You wont attach yourself to one person and suffer about each other idiosyncrasies;

You won’t have to give a spetacular and overspecified report of how was your day whenever you arrive tired of work at home;

You will be less prone to stupid and unfunded accusations of machism and will care less about “the power of the patriarchy”;

You will not have to pay attention to cheap talks about fashion and food and things of the like while you are concerned with bills and job problems;

You will not feel uncertainty about the future of your family;

You will not have to worry about possessions, you can live with less confort;

You can kick the bucket at any time and send your boss to hell;

You will have more time and money for beer and stupid things like sports and games;

You can just leave your place and experiment another city or job at any time;

You can be an adventurer and meet new people at new places more often;

Was this written in the 50s?



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Cobretti2 on 11 December 2018
Dark_Lord_2008 said:

https://www.quora.com/What-are-the-reasons-a-man-should-stay-single-for-life

You will not have the burden of being a provider for the rest of your life;

- My wife earns more than me, stop thinking all women are walmart/welfare chicks

You will not have to worry about the future of of children in a ever changing and challenging world;

- The world is so much easier to live in now than when we grew up. Stop wrapping kids in cotton wool will prepare them for the world

You will feel less disposable and more free;

You will have far more free time;

You wont attach yourself to one person and suffer about each other idiosyncrasies;

- My level of freedom and independence hasn't changed

You won’t have to give a spetacular and overspecified report of how was your day whenever you arrive tired of work at home;

- We both work so we don't talk about it. Also if we did how is this a big problem?

You will be less prone to stupid and unfunded accusations of machism and will care less about “the power of the patriarchy”;

- HUH?

You will not have to pay attention to cheap talks about fashion and food and things of the like while you are concerned with bills and job problems;

- My wife save money more than I do lol

You will not feel uncertainty about the future of your family;

- Nothing is certain in life except death and taxes

You will not have to worry about possessions, you can live with less confort;

- How is this even a worry? You buy what you need. Women do not want 10,000 couches, dining tables etc

You can kick the bucket at any time and send your boss to hell;

- HUH? Whats that got to do with women

You will have more time and money for beer and stupid things like sports and games;

- I still got money for all those things

You can just leave your place and experiment another city or job at any time;

- My wife followed me where I wanted to go. Also moving around a lot sucks anyway. If anything women prefer to move around more than men

You can be an adventurer and meet new people at new places more often;

- But you said you got no friends. You have all this time yet available to make this point come true

At the end of the day this list is so out of date. Stop looking for the lowest form of woman that is useless and find one that can stand on her two feet.



 

 

bowserthedog on 11 December 2018

I think it's mostly men who had experienced the effects of poor choice in women and no longer trust themselves to pick a healthy partner.



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Dark_Lord_2008 on 11 December 2018

In the past I had many jobs that lasted less than a month, I quit because I did not fit in or was fired for no shows.. Last 10 years since graduating from college I have just lived on welfare and applied for plenty of low end jobs that I did not get because I was over qualified or did not have a driver's license(sensory overload makes it very hard for Autistic people to obtain his/her driver's license). I keep trying to run away or hide from my problems but they keep following me. It is my bad childhood and inability to cope with Autism and mental health issues that explains my bad attitude and behavioural issues that still impact me today. From a young age, I was unable to cope with Autism and mental health issues and not fitting in, I have kept on running away. Now I am more into fitness: cycling and running, I still hope I can out run my problems so they will be behind me and I can move on to better things.

I ponder on what my life could have been if I did not have all the issues and problems that I have had to endure. Grass is greener on the other side. I regard running a marathon very similar to my life it is a continuous struggle and gets harder over time. I am at the half way mark of my life and it feels like the halfway mark of a marathon, the long struggle continues and the second half of my life just like a marathon is only going to get harder.

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LMU Uncle Alfred on 11 December 2018

Well, I haven't entirely given up on women.  We just fuck is all.



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Immersiveunreality on 12 December 2018
Dark_Lord_2008 said:

In the past I had many jobs that lasted less than a month, I quit because I did not fit in or was fired for no shows.. Last 10 years since graduating from college I have just lived on welfare and applied for plenty of low end jobs that I did not get because I was over qualified or did not have a driver's license(sensory overload makes it very hard for Autistic people to obtain his/her driver's license). I keep trying to run away or hide from my problems but they keep following me. It is my bad childhood and inability to cope with Autism and mental health issues that explains my bad attitude and behavioural issues that still impact me today. From a young age, I was unable to cope with Autism and mental health issues and not fitting in, I have kept on running away. Now I am more into fitness: cycling and running, I still hope I can out run my problems so they will be behind me and I can move on to better things.

I ponder on what my life could have been if I did not have all the issues and problems that I have had to endure. Grass is greener on the other side. I regard running a marathon very similar to my life it is a continuous struggle and gets harder over time. I am at the half way mark of my life and it feels like the halfway mark of a marathon, the long struggle continues and the second half of my life just like a marathon is only going to get harder.

I can relate it can be very exhausting  because we notice so many thing's others people do not mind and just do not see ,and being almost in a constant state of panic trying to get that license does not help either. :p But you need to reduce the things that can cause you stress in your close surroundings first and you might feel a bit more resistant against sensory overload, also if you have a too long to do list then by all means reduce it length bit by bit till its empty and you might feel more relaxed too.Take your time but aim towards putting pressure off yourself.



Alby_da_Wolf on 12 December 2018

Divorces can be so disastrous for men that's better and safer to eliminate the risk altogether directly from its roots, marriage.



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Cobretti2 on 12 December 2018
Alby_da_Wolf said:
Divorces can be so disastrous for men that's better and safer to eliminate the risk altogether directly from its roots, marriage.

You don't need to be married for you to have to give up half. If you been in a long enough committed relationship is enough to trigger the process with lawyers.